Only when the connection to his family is acknowledged, and the person’s responsibility seen clearly and then distributed, can the individual feel unburdened and go about his personal affairs without anything from the past weighing him down or holding him back.” Bert Hellinger
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Families, in its various forms, are the universal basis of our society and social structures. In order to educate happy and strong individuals families need to be healthy, whether divorced or not, poor or rich, white or black.
Few things in life are only wonderful (or awful) and the truth is parents report that parenthood is both wonderful and very challenging. We need to prepare ourselves to become the best possible parent. Furthermore we need to monitor our expectations, and pay attention to our success and also to our mistakes; both propel us to our resilience, transforming error and pain into growth, so that parenthood becomes wonderful, regardless of the obstacles we have overcome. Family dynamics are constantly teaching us incredible, invaluable lessons.
“When the family has been brought into its natural order, the individual can leave it behind him while still feeling the strength of his family supporting him. Only when the connection to his family is acknowledged, and the person’s responsibility seen clearly and then distributed, can the individual feel unburdened and go about his personal affairs without anything from the past weighing him down or holding him back.” Bert Hellinger
Families are in constant change, and “comfort zones” are not stable. When faced with a new transition in the family life cycle, parents benefit from posing themselves the following questions:
What is apparently being discussed here?
What is really at stake?
What abilities and positive attitudes do we already have in the family system?
What is new to us and needs new information, new paradigms, and new abilities to be learned?
How are we communicating?
How are we doing in terms of family cohesion?
Are we ready to give the family the space and time required to improve its relationships?
Sometimes we need to access new ways of looking at our concerns and problems. Consulting an expert in relationships helps us to enrich our lives and that of our beloved ones. Together we can access the wisdom required to find the right solution and make your relationship flourish.
Our services include:
Parenting or collaborating as a team
Infidelity, Affair Recovery
Recurring issues with elder parents
Spiritual or personal identity crisis
Transitions and losses
We offer ongoing relationship counseling and brief solution oriented counselling, using the leading edge models of treatment based on more than 25 years of experience and excellent post degree training.
We look forward to helping you support your family. Contac us